My daughter recently took her two boys for their check-ups. She and the two boys were together in the same exam room as the doctor who examined both boys (the oldest just entering puberty) at the same time, which I thought really helped to eliminate any possibly embarrassing moments. Everything was discussed including the Gardasil shots due to be given next year to the oldest. Then the doctor gave each boy the opportunity to talk with him privately w/o their Mom there . I'm all for "teachable moments" starting very young which provides for later situations to be that much easier. Sandy, I agree, it's best to protect and educate. There are unforeseen circumstances that arise where even the best intentions or personal beliefs go awry.