Thanks Jennifer
We went to doctors they adviced to go to pain clinic. Went there but that clinic turned out more to help with reducing pain medications.
Have asked for a speech pathologist , waiting to hear back from them. It has already been over 1 week since I spoke to their clinic last.

Choking feeling has just come up after neck dissection. Doc said to see a physio therapist, whom we have contacted too but are still waiting to hear back from them also.

Ez Jim - I tried all what you suggested hot tea /milk etc. but nothing seems to work with him.

I hope to hear soon from speech pathologist and physio therapist. Will take it from there.

THank you all for all your support and help.
Roma