Klo - they are all there, but the fan was only the beginning, there was the stove, and my mothers iron, there was the belief that to win a bet I could grab the cheese out of a rat trap before it got me, and after numerous warnings not to even try, well you know�. there was the 50 caliber machine gun breach that I was told not to touch after it had been firing for about 15 minutes, to prove I could clear a jam�. We needed that gun, but I now have no finger print on that finger, and the list goes on.

Perhaps the phrase "slow learner" might be applied to me. Though I certainly didn't think I was slow in school, I just thought I had bad teachers��. (transference of blame is a whole 'nuther issue that we just won't go into here.)

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.