Thanks so much for your tip on feeding problems. I will give this a try.
I am sorry to hear that you have similar health issues. I am only the caregiver, but I have seen the pain and frustration that my husband has suffered and my heart goes out to both you and your wife. When I say a prayer at night for my husband, I will include you.
I also gave my husband your tip on the spitting problems. He said the tissue was a good idea and he is using this to clean out his mouth after rinsing.
Take care RJM