good luck to both of you with the scans. I'll be thinking of you.

I know what you mean about caring. I got told yesterday that I'm a pain sometimes because I want to talk about cancer with Steve. Hello, discussing what the doctor just said and trying to make decisions is something we have to do. If steve had his way it would only ever be mentioned by doctor's and when we get home cancer would no longer exist in our life, only at the hospital. Nearly 2 years since diagnosis and I still don't know how he feels about the entire thing. It's like I have to go through every life changing aspect of this with him but not actually discuss how this is impacting on us in any way with him. Grrrrrr, men. Love him dearly but sometimes I'd just like to thump him.