Eileen-I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm sorry I didn't see your post sooner. If there is anything at all I can do-please let me know. Even to just listen. I have been there and may be able to help you as you have helped so many people on this board.

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.