Yup Helen, it does matter!
Glad you've shared this, but you really DO need to share it with Geoff as well--the fact that John can't manipulate him is a good thing, and he might have even forgotten by now that he doesn't like him!
We cyber friends are here for you, and how horrible so near to Christmas--which is all about families and support--I think Geoff would be hurt if you didn't tell him.
I and many more would also be hurt if you hadn't told US!

And take heart from the fact that the doc said she's not really concerned--is it the same one you saw before?

You need someone with you when you go for the biopsy and to 'want to know' when you get the results--so yes, tell Geoff--and your younger brother would also feel left out I'm sure.

In the meantime, am sending you back up your tree with a strong cocktail to write and tell us about Portugal!!

Brenda x