Tim - I've always been the closest to my parents. Now, more than ever I see the love in his eyes for me. It is precious, and these times, even though tough, are the times that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Without a doubt we know that we were carried on the wings of prayers through the first round of this battle.

Margaret, I too was amazed at how well dad did during the radiation. I read with horror all the side effects that others have experienced and after every treatment I wondered when they were going to start to hit dad. I feel like sometimes he is the only one to not have the feeding tube. Even when food lost its taste and it hurt to swallow, he didn't give up. We didn't have to nag, he knew he must eat. This round of radiation will kill the salivary glands on the left side and salivary function will more than likely be almost non existant. I am so worried that swallowing will become so difficult that a feeding tube will be mandatory. Dad still refuses to go that route. But, we are focusing on today and will worry about tomorrow when it gets here.

Bren - You are truly an inspiration. I read my mom your post regarding your trip here to the states to surprise your daughter. I'm so glad you were able to make the trip and spend time with her. I think it's wonderful that she has also joined you out here on the board. I guess next time you plan a surprise visit to her it will be a surprise to us all!

Donna - I am number 3 of 3. My sister is oldest - Jamie, brother - Jeff, then me. Next is my daughter Jennifer who married a Josh and they have a son Jaden. Mom & Dad's dog is named Julie. My daughters dog is Jupiter. Now if we really want to get wierd we could go on to middle names, which all start with the same letter too....hahaha....Dad and brother are JEP, girls were JLP. My daughter is now a JLC, her husband and son are JAC. When I spoke to dad earlier today I told him that friends of mine from out here that lived in PA were adding him to their prayer tree. He was so PLEASED and asked that I let you know how much he appreciated all the prayers.

Thanks again to everyone for your replies and support. I'm feeling better now knowing that we won't be facing this alone.

Hugs,

Joy