I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish I could wave a magic fairy wand, but I can't. You have friends here and we're all here for you. Hugs to you and your dad.
Mum - sick as a dog, see her sig. Dad - diagnosed with throat cancer late 2007.
This is another custom island. This one could be used for ads. This spot is one of the best places for ads on your site to be placed. This can be enabled/disabled on a per forum basis.