Hospice organizations often offer grief support for individuals who have lost a loved one. Even if your mom did not have hospice at the end of her life, grief support may be available to you. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.

Are there cancer support groups near you that might be helpful for you and your husband? SPOHNC and The Wellness Community are two national cancer support organizations that come to mind.

Be well. Zenda
12/04 SCC Tonsil, Stage IV T3N2BM0. Mod RND, resect right oropharynx, free-flap, resect right tongue base. Erbitux,Docetaxel,RT X 33. 6/08 Mets lung, hilar lymph node:Carboplatin, Docetaxel. 2010 2nd clinical trial:lung clear, node stable. ORN,trismus,dysphagia. 8-10/2012 cryoablation,brachytherapy,cyberknife to lymph node. 12/12 NED. 6/13 Mets RLL lung: 8/13 cyberknife. 11/13 NED.