OP "OCF Canuck" Contributing Member (25+ posts) Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 36 | My surgery was in the summer and I am ok, as far as anyone knows at least. I am not depressed but for the last 6 weeks I have been driven to tidy up loose ends in my life. This is not just relationships but areas of the house as well. I am compelled, for reasons I do not understand, to put my affairs in order. My husband is a physician and has noticed this behavior, he hoped it was a passing phase but realizes as the weeks go by that I am super calm, methodical, and quite simply...turning into His personality type! We chatted about it today and I told him I have this deep feeling that I need to straighten everything out in the house that quite simply I need my house to be in "dying order" as the older folks would have said back in the day.
Any insight would be appreciated.
Thanks! Nancy
55 yrs, Female, smoked for 4 yrs 35 yrs. ago, SCC right underside tongue and floor of mouth, laser surgery took 1/3 tongue Aug 2010, 3 weeks later in Sept right neck dissection 40 nodes removed with 1microscopic spot in one node. No chemo or radiation.
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