Thank you once again everyone. I am glad I found OCF too! All of you have been wonderful. My brother had stage 4 Lyrnx cancer and fought it, wanted to give up many times. His life is altered as he can't speak/smell or breath well anymore but the bottom line is he fought and is cancer free.

MIL doesn't have any money. She does have medicare and they are going to get everything covered and trying to get her moved into a home today/tomorrow. They just want her out of the hospital because they can't help her anymore. In California they have an In Home Support Services that helps but sadly it takes WEEKS or a month before it is approved. Her doctor said surgery is not an option and end of life treatment is the best option at this point, Hospice. I already called and signed her up with Hospice and now there are waiting on the doctor to approve/write her order.

As for the Health Care POA I have already informed her daughter do it NOW, no delays along with a health care directive (I think thats the name of it). Her mind is in/out so better to make her last wishes documented immediately. MIL is in complete denial, super sad that she didn't fight, actually pisses me off she HAD a chance to beat this even though it came back. She originally was diagnosed in 03 or 04 and pretty much kept it a secret until 07 when I found out, then it was hidden all the way and avoided discussion. Stubborn fool.

She didn't even put on a good fight to save her own life for her children and grandchildren and won't even get to meet her new grandson (1st boy in the family for a long long time) who is arriving in May. I hope to get some pictures of her with my children so they can look back and remember her.

Thanks guys and I will keep you posted.