Please don't wait! I'm the mother of a 16 and 14 year old. Yes I would be upset if they were partying but I would be 1000 times more upset if they didn't tell me they had a lump in there mouth. Tell them asap. If you tell your doctor about the cigs and pot he has to keep it confidential I beleive even if your a minor. Just do not wait, tell them immediately about the lump so they can get you the proper diagnosis. Good luck to you and Merry Xmas. Shelly

9/18/10-mucoepidermoid carcinoma-inter/advanced
10/13/10-surgery, neck dissection
11/1/10-start 33 rads no chemo