back in february, the beginning of this nightmare the ENT and oncologist said he had two options, (a) removal of entire tongue, jaw and voicebox or (b) treatment first with radiation and chemo, which was a lot!.. so of course we went with (b).. i just pray that it was the right way to go... the doctors themselves said that they would not start off with the surgery.... but its like you just dont know.. :-(

how is your sister doing? i hope well!