"Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 735 | Brenda
MY advice ... Follow your heart , but listen to your body . I know you LOVE those kids and I know the impact that they have on your life , as I too work with Autistic children.
So we both know as well the physical strain it takes on you and the mental and emotional. For me I needed it I felt it was best for me and finacially it was needed. BUt now I am out for 8 weeks AGAIN ! UGHHHHH
You need to reach deep and decide, Maybe you can go very limited part time or even volunteer so that you have that contact but not nessacarilly the responsibilty. I know I am not staying away for 8 weeks I can't . And I know you understand why ..I had just gotten instructional control, I cant stay away for 8 weeks and go back in or I am at square one and it will be sooo physical when I go back .
So I am going to go in every now and then to visit and sit in so that they see me there and still know that I am there .BUT I wont be dealing with behaviors. SO I hope you can search your heart and do what is best for you ... CA sounds awful nice too !!
Shar
Sharlee 35 year old Female Non smoker, very occasional alcohol ..Scc T1N0M0,partial glossectomy and left neck disection ,2/9/07 No rad deemed ness. 4/16 tonsillectomy ..Trimengenial Neuralga due to surgery
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