Waving my hand here too.....hubby left me 8 weeks ago after surviving the treatment for base of tongue and a double mastectomy all in the same year (2009)! He at least waited until he heard I was out of the woods with 4 or was it now 5 clean scans but was told that I would need a total of 5 years worth of scans!

I think the Match.com for cancer survivors is an excellent idea! Need help?! Let's contact Oprah or SPOHNC?

Read this:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article6875081.ece

Invasive Basaloid Squamous Cell CA ~ BOT Inoperatible Stage IV
P16 HPV +
Neck lymph node biopsy x 2
Tongue biopsy / anesthesia 2/09
Chemo x 3 (Cisplatin ~ reaction w/ ears), 2nd & 3rd Carboplatin
Chemo & Rads (37 days) 3/19/09
PEG tube 4/29/09 - 7/10/09
Treatment done 5/11/09
4 clean PET/CT,1 clean CT