Thanks kevin now can you please explain BBQ more clearly. In England BBQ as well as being an abbreviation for barbrcue is used to describe the flavour of a type of sauce!!!

Hi Bren,and thanks for the support.This lymph node is making my jaw just in front of my ear ache like mad,and is still very tense and swollen over my collar bone,and yes,it is very difficult not to keep poking and touching it.

We are having a family party tomorrow for little Josies first birthday so i am sure that will keep me occupied.

Are you off to the caravan this weekend?

love liz