Double Wow, Liz!! Every caregiver should have that "little piece of paper". And Susan - I do hope things get better for your sister and you. I'm sure she realizes what a special sister she has in you, but may not be able to express it right now. I am just so grateful for all the caregivers and the many survivors who were there to support me when my son and I were in our darkest days and guided us to our new and better "normal"!