I invite all of my care team to touch and examine my neck and mouth. They all seem curious and a bit mortified. I suffer "wooden neck" and severe Trismus. The reactions are consistent and sympathetic. I find myself waving pom poms and telling them that I am still a vital human that needs them to help me live. Most of them seem to enjoy the challenge. Does any one want to start the "Cancer Treatments Suck" support group?