I don't understand how he can eat that and than get upset with me saying he can't eat? He told me last night he drinks the beer so he's not hungry...wth? Stupid answer. He can eat...right? I mean if you can eat oatmeal twice and mashed potatoes and gravy, and soups that I pureed in the past...why do you stop eating? He said when the swelling goes down in his throat he will eat more(the swelling WAS getting better, I think maybe he knows something he don't want to tell me?)I'm done fighting with him. I took his cans from his feeding tube down the basement(he lives down there anyway with his beer and cigs), as well as his Boost 12 pk that has been sitting on my kitchen floor since Oct 24th with 7 left and almost a full case of the "formula." I don't want to see it anymore so I know what he is NOT eating. I don't want it in my face. I put away the instant oatmeal, the instant single serve potatoes, the canned cream soups that I leave on the sink out for him back into the cupboard and cleaned up my kitchen this morning, no signs of anything he needs to eat. I will continue NOT to speak to him while he is drinking, I hate talking to him when he's drunk, what's the point right? I am done trying since he is done also. PS I called his doc yesterday for anti-depressants, still waiting for the call back from him. I wonder if they called it into the pharmacy and forgot to call me back, so I will be on the phone this am.