Dear Lisa,
Sounds like your husband is in total denial. PLEASE go to a cancer center and talk to a Doctor about your situation. This is nothing to mess around with....it's life or death. If this has been going on since January, that's 9 months ago. I don't want to scare you, but you don't want to wait any longer. Keep coming back here. We're all here to support you.
Hugs,
Shelley