Hi, Gerri,

When my husband had just finished rads, he developed a post rad infection. The resulting surgery and HBOT just wore him down. At a follow up visit, I mentioned his emotional state privately to his surgeon. The surgeon was able to talk to my husband and reassure him that if he needed help, he could set that up for him. That conversation alone seemed to go a long way in acknowledging how truly difficult this whole head and neck cancer trip is.

The nurses at HBOT were also wonderful at drawing Clark out of his low. There are many people who can help you and your husband get through this trying time. Ask for help.

As for depression, I am the one who became depressed! As a caregiver, it is important for you to receive the help you may need for yourself. My PCP was my lifeline and she recognized the change in me, diagnosed it as depression, and prescribed medication.

I hope things improve for both of you. All my best�

Anita