Oh and Lesson Six: Give credit to those who support. If it hadn't been for Gabe in the first instance to turning me on to this site and listening to all my crap at work, Karen Rose for helping with feeding, WendyG for putting it all in perspective, and ChristineB for her cautions about side effects, I would have tossed either myself or Alex off the balcony by now smile
Karen

Karen
Love of Life to Alex T4N2M0 SCC Tonsil, BOT, R lymph nodes
Dx March 2010 51yrs. Unresectable. HPV+ve
Tx Chemo x 3+1 cycles(cisplatin,docetaxel,5FU)- complete May 31
Chemoradiation (IMRTx35 + weekly cisplatin)
Finish Aug 27
Return to work 2 years on
3 years out Aug 27 2013 NED smile
Still underweight