I'm so sorry about Jeff. Cancer does indeed SUCK! Everyone here sure as hell knows that. It really must be so sad for you to have to see him like that. Try to remember to take good care of your own health during this high-stress time.

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.