Thanks for the responses guys.
Sue, yes I'm having my surgery in Adelaide. I think I will talk further with the MO on monday (first time I'm seeing him, so it's kind of a second opinion opportunity), and ask my surgeon about the possibility of doing frozen sections on the node before going further.
Cheers
Jules
Male 40 YO
SCC RHS tongue | Partial glossectomy & MRND (levels I - IV) 6/2007, 35 rads 9/2007, no chemo
Recurrence 4/2010, currently T1N2aM0 | Hemi-glossectomy with RFFF and RND 24/7/2010
Gorgeous wife Lynda, daughter Sienna and another on the way! (there's good stuff too) | 
