Billy and Amy,
Thanks for the kind wishes.
The kids are doing okay...they don't really get it yet. I've been quite honest with my 10 yr old about grandma's illness and of course the two year old is okay as long as grandma is around to do his bidding. She spoils them both rotten and it will be possibly a good thing for them to have to learn to give back more to grandma for a change.
Jackie