Thank you all so much. I have read to her many of your replys, she cried and was so appreciative. Yesterday shemet with MD who was in charge of her radiation; he wouldn't rx the zoloft but did give her an rx for Ativan. She's quite leary of meds so is starting with 1/2 tab. Says she is less depressed and anxious than last weekend (possibly the pre-doctor visit anxiety) but is seeing the surgeon next week and is gonna ask him about an antidepressant.

and Eric... You made me laugh, thank you! I'd thought about some pot but she never even smoked a cigarette in her life am pretty sure she would never smoke a joint.

Also am making some progress getting her here to these forums.
Got her on here the other day and helped her navigate through.

I hope each of you who share on these forums realize how wonderful you are and how helpful you are to people who visit here and the lives they touch. I have grown to love you all as you share your hearts here.

Dodie