Tell him you all want what is best for him as you all love him and need him to have the best treatment available. Good luck to you all and it seems he has a good caregiver in his corner. This is a necessity for his battle.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here