I guess youre right ni that we dont need his 'permission' to get the ball rolling. I will call them today. I guess I was just looking for guidance as to which place would be best for us. Should I consider whats closest to us because they are all great hospitals or if one was better than the other. I guess theres not answer for that.
Thank you again for your input. I really appreciate it. Its helped me a lot and made me feel more confident in our decision since coming here


my mom, age 59.

12/08 surgery & 33x rad
4/09 recurrence
5/09 surgery & 35x rad
12/09 recurrence
1/10 surgery. peg tube, trach, fibula free flap
6/10 recurrence. double chemo treatments.
8/10/10 finally at peace in heaven