I wasn't aware of Richard Cohen (MS & Colon cancer survivor, 3 Emmys, married to Meredith Vieira, AARP columnist on line, two best selling books) but ran across several quotes of his in an interview, Here is the first one
[quote]Appreciate Yourself for Who You Are
wishing desperately for something that cannot come to fruition is futile - and keeps you living in the past.
Remember: Focus on what you can do in the here and now instead of what you can't do[/quote]
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