Thank you Dianne MH
LOL @ Ashley... Actually my hubby has an appt with the National Guard recruiter (he is prior Navy) while he is in training we should get full benefits so if something isn't done before that takes effect I will get it taken care of then.
The ER was a waste of time!!! After waiting 5 hours all the doctor said was I don't know what it is and you will have to go to an ENT... Well duh!!! I already knew that! He acted as if it was no big deal and he kept saying if it doesn't hurt and it isn't changing then it is probably nothing or maybe an infection, even though I had told him that it has been changing! Some days it seems swollen and has a white top and others it doesn't... needless to say the ER doc didn't listen to a word I had said!
I am gonna call some other ENT's and see if I can get in sooner and if they will work with me on a payment.
Oh I also talked to the receptionist at my kids' dentist and they refer all biopsy's to an oral surgeon.

Feels like I am running in circles!... LOL
Shannon