Welcome Michele - Stick with this forum and these folks will get you thru it. Hang on to the sense of humor, it's vital and lastly, I loved your verse about the stained glass - I've never seen that one before and truly enjoyed the sentiment. Best of all treatment to you!

Husband: 3 SCC gum and cheek cancers 2002, 2005, 2006: surgery only. Scans clear after removal of small, well differentiated, non-invasive cancers. No radiation. 4th SCC lip diagnosed 4/13/07 - in situ, removed in biopsy. More lip removed 2/8/08 - dysplasia. 2 Biopsies 3/17/09 no cancer (lichenoids)