thank u all. i know, in my heart, that i was where i needed to be--with my hubby--because he is numero uno--it just kills me that my friend was going thru this at the same time.
what kills me is that her family was not with her during this difficult time. and shame on them.
i am so mixed in my feelings of joy for andy and anger for her. thank u so much for the cyber hugs===they really meant alot. and thank you for the responses of support...they go a looooooong way! cheryl, kate and angelia......thank you!