I meet with the reconstruction doctor on Tuesday, and he described the reconstruction aspect of the surgery and answered all my questions.

He has me almost convinced that the free flap is a good thing for me, but still not 100% convinced. They would use my forearm for the donor site. Traditionally they then cover the donor site with a graft from the thigh, so you have 3 areas that have to heal. He told me about a new procedure they use which involves cadaver skin (yes, donated from the deceased). This method involves two surgeries. The first is to implant the donated skin in my forearm to allow it to develop a blood supply, etc. This takes place 2 weeks before the main surgery. There are a number of advantages to this method, including fewer problems for the donor site. However, he has to check with my surgeon to see if waiting 2 weeks is OK and also if there would be enough tissue under this method.

Has anyone else had a free flap using cadaver skin? If so, did you have any problems with either the free flap or donor site?

Jen, thanks for your reply. I wish you the best with your treatment. It isn't an easy road that we travel.

Alpaca, you certainly have been through a lot also. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

Karen Rose, I'm glad you aren't facing what I am now, as you've had to face a lot more than I have.

I will keep you all in my prayers.