ahhh yes. as john said--dont take it personally. this treatment is very hard on the patient. it will be tough on u as well. jim will lash out and since u are there, u will be the target.
i was on here several times in the caregiver forum complaining about the "lashings". unfortunately, its all part of it. but u have to remember that is isnt personal. at some points, i had to repeat that to myself several times a day.