Hi Barb,
Welcome aboard here you will find your are not alone, you will find advice..(from everyone)
But I'm alittle concern for you, you said your not eatting. I recommend you get all the calories you can right now before your surgery and treatments...If you lose to much weight they will place peg tube in belly. Try eatting high calorie foods, force your self.

While are they taking so long to do your surgery and your testes??

Isabel