Hi Milton:

Welcome to the OCF Board-it is amazing how many new and committed members have joined even since I did in August, 2002. You are indeed among the elite of veteran oral cancer survivors here without the downside of arrogance or lack of humility. In contrast, the folks here are genuine in their concern, respect, and humor. As you stick around you will also find the virtual "ESP phenomenon " exists here. Just when it seems the low point is so low it's an abyss, someone here notices and kicks in gently (or not so gently if you can handle it) to bolster your courage. Of course, some members are more fesity than others so if you like colorful but with good intentions-you have come to the right place.

I find myself wondering on a daily basis how someone from the forum is doing and I am confident people do the same about myself and Dave. I can truly say some of the original members on this forum kept me sane during David's surgery last September and continue to provide emotional refuge abnd inspiration for me when I ask for help and sometimes when I don't but they know I need it before I've noticed.The other most amazing factor here is the speediness of the replies which makes feeling alone and desperate a fairly short lived experience.

The best news is...it's not like welcome wagon here-when the gift basket of goodies is gone you aren't done...it's gracious and welcoming here 24/7.

In closing, let's remember that the tone gets set from the top and we are remarkably fortunate to have Brian's honesty, candor, and unique lens on life to keep us all centered.

Best,

Kim