Dearest B, my thoughts are with you, I am sorry you have to go through this. I have a friend whose husband died suddenly 3 weeks ago (heart attack) age 43. She is having a very difficult time, they have 4 children, she went to a doctor to get some help.....I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers...Carol

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---