Hi, Shelly,

I am so sorry that you and your family will be making this very tough journey. While there are a lot of different opinions on a variety of concerns on this website, the one thing that matters is that you and Mike are comfortable with the Cancer Center, doctors and caregivers. While oral cancers can be similar, no two people are alike and the plan of care can vary.

As a nurse, I think you have an upper hand. Take advantage of it. Mike's in great hands.

For me, the stuff that is hard to predict is the emotional fallout. This group has been a real lifeline for me. No real advice here just wanted to welcome you to our group.

Hang in there!
Anita