Liz

While we will miss you, I am so glad that you are finally going to take care of yourself. I have been worried about you, especially in this Holiday season because of all you went through with Rob.
I agree with your Counselor about taking a breather from oral cancer and that includes this board. Trust me that no one here would begrudge you a new life even if does not include OCF.
It's time that you start being a caregiver to yourself. That is NOT SELFISH, it's just common sense.
Even across the pond, we continue to share: I had 24 inches or 61 centimeters of snow in my driveway and no plow on my hilly cul-de-sac for three days (City of Alexandria VA is perhaps the most incompetent snow removal government on the entire East Coast) and have had to cancel two therapy sessions for being snow bound. Still very pretty to see the trees festooned with white and the elaborate curves of snow on the railings and fences.
May the PEACE & LOVE of this Season be yours once again. I wish you Godspeed on your new journey.
Charm