Thanks Charm, I'll have a look at that later tonight.  I'm not her caregiver and one of the most frustrating parts of this is that I live in a different country than her.  Its a helpless feeling at times and full of that wonderful emotion called guilt.  I had a trip planned in a couple of weeks time for the holidays, before this happened, so am definitely looking forward to that and hope that it won't be spent worrying or in hospital, and I mean that not for me - but for her.  So fingers and toes are crossed for tomorrows PET, will let you know.  Thanks again..        
Daughter of mother with Oral Cancer.   1st, soft palate - surgery 2nd, neck - (heart attack while going under, surgery cxld) - radiation 3rd, neck & nodes- neck dissection waiting on pet scan 12/9
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