I looked at this, and other, support groups when I was diagnosed in February this year (tertiary oesophagal cancer, close to larynx, with large swelling in neck). I was already badly frightened and some of the discussions scared me even more.

On the advice of my excellent oncologist, I elected for radical chemo + radiotherapy. I was warned that I was unlikely to taste anything again, might well lose my voice and the ability to swallow, and had approx. 40% chance of the cancer being eradicated, and had to sign that I understood this.

Eight months on, I have just had a clear PET scan. I can swallow, talk and taste virtually as well as ever. On the journey here, I have met many wonderful people and know that, though extremely fortunate, I am by no means unique.

No, the treatment wasn't pleasant. But it wasn't unbearable either. And, for the quality of life I now have, it was SO well worth enduring.

Before my diagnosis, I had read of what was called a "fight" against cancer. I understand what it means now. People fight much better if they believe they can win. If my experiences can help anyone take on the first fight, I would be extremely happy to share them.