cjack

I recommend reading through the posts in the Coping/Anger fear forum as well as the After Treatment forum. You can quickly sift through what is relevant to your individual situation and may be quite surprised at how common our "unique" problems turn out to be.
I really like your clever reference to Hotel California. with all the youngsters now on the board, I'm adding the lyrics that really do fit post cancer in case they don't listen to oldie stations:
[quote]Last thing I remember, I was
Running for the door
I had to find the passage back
To the place I was before
'Relax,' said the night man,
'We are programmed to receive.
You can check-out any time you like,
But you can never leave!'[/quote]
My personal favorite transition aid remains putting Wine down my PEG tube in order to have "Happy Hour" with my wife/caregiver, but that's just me & my Dionysian life style.
good luck
charm