You and Jim have really been thru it, and then some. I am glad to hear you have a party planned - those are the special times that make life worthwhile. I know you think that being with Jim is your time for you, but maybe some other caregivers can weigh in here - is it possible that by taking some time away for yourself (manicure / pedicure ???) that you might come back to deal with "everything" feeling more refreshed which would benefit both of you?

Keeping you guys in my prayers. I hate this disease. It really sucks.

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)