I'm not sure if I should get in the middle of this dialog. I am hoping that the two of you are starting to jab at each other in good spirit, and this isn't going to draw blood somewhere. If we re completely off the original topic, perhaps it is time to move this discussion to "the Friends forum".... we are all still friends right?


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.