Lol, some great idea's here. I would send it over for you brian but it would cost a fortune in postage from Oz and would probably scare all of the postal workers between here and the US. Love the lampshade idea. We were advised not to burn it because of fumes so I'd think twice about that idea. Ezjim I totally agree on the sense of humour, it's a must to get through this. Have to try and find the humour in every day.

Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
Teeth removed 06/07/2009
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.