Thanks so much for all responses; seems like a lifetime ago that I wrote that entry. He's off all pain meds - doc said that the sweats were probably from withdrawal. Michael did it his way (cold turkey), not the doc's way. Now we're at the opposite end of the spectrum - he cannot sleep in the evening. Tosses, turns, etc. Melatonin used to work; trying soft music, mediation, acupuncture - all to no avail. I think it fear and worry (understandable); he said he's afraid to live and also afraid to die. His zoloft has been increased. Also having issues with hearing - ENT said it's dehydration. We see the radiation onc this Thursday. One week from today he'll have a full body scan and also a scan of the liver.

Sending prayers to all on this board.


1/23/09:R tonsil/tumor removed; spouse diagnosed SCC Stage T3N1M1; 2/6/09 PET shows lesions in liver; 3/2/09 Liver biopsy: AJCC Stage IVC; 3/5/09 Begin 3 rounds of Cisplatin Cocktail; 4/9/09 PET of liver: clean; 5/21/09:PEG; 5/26/09: radiation; 7/6/09: Complete 30 rad tx: hospitalized until 7/10/09