Josh, Im sure its quite a shock to your mom. I would be to anyone. When someone goes thru treatment and it comes back is devastating. It just seems like you cant catch a break. Its understandable that she is feeling down. Is there anyone at the hospital she can talk to? Most cancer centers have special therapists who work with cancer patients. Please ask the doctors or nurses to lead you in the right direction for someone there to talk with. There might even be a cancer support group there.

Wishing you and your mother all the best.



Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile