Having had to deal with a similar attitude from my very difficult husband,i can only reiterate every word Brian says to you Petey.As i told you in my e-mail Robin has taken his treatment with all the good grace of a bear with a thorn in its bum,but he has nearly done it ,and is still here to tell the tale . He is bloody minded enough to be around for a lot longer making my life the roller coaster ride it has been since the day we met,and i wouldnt have it any other way!!!