Re: Newbie 2x survivor ChrisCQ 03-28-2025 12:20 AM
Hello Derek,
Sorry to hear you had a recurrence and woke up from surgery without knowing what was possibly or likely going to be the outcome.
I never would have imagined they would skip over those possibilities when they were discussing it with you before.
I mean mine was tiny, but I told the surgeon I understood things can change when they have you on the table, and I was of the mind to "get it done" whatever it takes, despite a planned very minor surgery in my case.
Now having read your story, Nel's and other's I am trying to catch any possible recurrence super early so the next surgery is equally minor and just another small chunk of tongue.
I would have no idea what to expect for something like what you guys went through, and if my medical team didn't pound it in my head and prep me mentally for what to expect, it would seem kind of like getting hit by a train, getting knocked out and waking back up with half your body not working.
I hope you are adjusting well, living alone and dealing with all of that, THAT I can't imagine. Glad you found some local support, and hopefully you keep expanding that circle of support.
Sorry you have had such a rough go with follow up and post operation care, but that lymphoma clinic and PT sounds like a Godsend, hopefully you can cling on to them and find others like that.
COVID and recovery with all the complications...ugh...I salute you sir! You put up the good fight and made it through.
I hope you readjust and find a good quality of life, Nels talks about how we was able to gradually reclaim a pretty active life and thrive, and can figure out how to remain vigilant, without letting the worry take away from living your best life each day.
Take care of yourself, and I wish you the best.
R/
CQ